Develop a Personal Assessment Sheet.  This will contain your natural talents or gifts, your skills, and your interests.  List everything you can think of without judging if you like it or not.  We’ll break the list down later.

Make 3 columns on a sheet of paper.

Start with your natural talents or gifts. In the first column list everything that you are naturally good at.  Those things that come easily, that don’t require any thought.  These are usually things other people comment on by saying “you’re really good at that”.  Some of my talents or gifts are coaching, counseling, motivating, listening, reading, solving puzzles, and making people laugh.

In the second column, make a list of all your skills. Skills are those things that can be taught and learned.  They may be talents that have been enhanced by study or practice.  Some of my skills are writing, speaking to large groups, cooking, planning and scheduling projects, swimming, internet marketing and repairing small appliances.

Finally, make a list of things that interest you. You may or may not know anything about the subject, but something about it draws your interest.  For example, I’m interested in personal development, travel, all things Irish, sailing, gardening, island living, gourmet food and wine, and good mystery books.

When you have completed your lists, go back over them and circle the top 3-4 items in each column that you really enjoy. The ones that make you smile, that you would be happy doing or being involved with everyday.

Do you see any trends with the items you circled?

Do they, or can they, relate to each other in any way?

How might you integrate them into your life right now?

Do you see how they might be part of your next career?

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Make a list of jobs or businesses you might be interested in. Pick one at a time and focus on it for 1-2 weeks. Go to the library, read books about it, and surf the internet for information.

Call several people who are working in these jobs and ask for an information interview by phone or in person. Tell them you’re researching the industry and simply want to ask some general questions. Ask them what the standard salary range is, type of work done, hours, travel requirements, skills required, or anything that’s important to you. Ask them what they like and don’t like about their job. Maybe you could volunteer to actually work in the environment for a short time.

Do NOT use this time for serious job hunting. This is research. You do not need a resume, a portfolio or a blue suit. All you need is sincere curiosity, some enthusiasm and enough courage to make that first phone call!
(Be sure to add the names and numbers of people you speak with to your network. )

Print some personal business cards.  Put your name, home mailing address, professional-sounding email address and phone number on them.  Use the addresses and phone number that you will be using for your resume or business plan.  Keep them simple and elegant, no cute pictures or sayings.

Start carrying these with you and be ready to offer them at any time.  You never know who might become your big contact!  You’ll also want to give them to friends and colleagues you want to stay in touch with, who might not have your personal contact information.

You can print these on your home computer or use a professional service.  I use an online service that offers free business cards that carry their advertising on the back, or for a nominal fee they leave the back of the card blank.
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